The choice of “your” person is one of the most important choices in life (not counting the presidential elections, of course).
The woman with whom a man decides to share his world is the person who will become the mother of his children, help plan his life, pick him up when he falls, and make him better than he is now. But what does the ideal woman look like in men's eyes?
So, What do men want to see in a woman?
1. Personality
Being truly beautiful has nothing to do with how you look, but it all depends on who you are on the inside.
I have met quite a few beautiful women in my life, whose personality was as attractive as a dirty toilet floor. Sorry, but it is.
I would like people who want to look good so much that they spend a huge amount of effort, energy and money for this, invest the same amount, and even more, to be sincere, themselves.
We see how uncontrollably you girls laugh with your friends, and how you giggle, hold back emotions with us.
Find yourself. Don't try to copy someone. Do what you really enjoy. Order a huge burger for dinner. Smear the ketchup all over your face. Sometimes do not put on makeup and do not style your hair for an hour and a half. It's all right: we really like it.
Do you know Drake's song where he says, "Sweatpants, hair pulled back, no makeup, that's when you're the prettiest"? Well, he's right.
We love it when you dress up and feel beautiful, but know that you don't have to switch from your real self to get our recognition.If there ever comes a point where you feel the need to do so, then you are simply with the wrong person.
2. Respect
How you present yourself says a lot about who you are. In today's society there is something called social media and it's basically your resume for men. Where you go, who you go with, what you say and how you say it reflects who you are as a person.
Many guys want their girlfriend to be popular, but it's all child's play. Real men don't do that. We prefer a woman who stays at home, reading a book, rather than drinking with her friends on the weekends; we prefer the life that a woman lives to be more restrained, as this makes her (the woman) more intriguing.
The less we know, the more interest. This also applies to relationships. The more mysterious the woman, the more interesting it is with her. It makes men act. Conversations take on meaning and it becomes attractive.
3. Attachment
Men are very physical people. By it's nature we reach for the gentle touches of a woman. It goes without saying that a woman who freely expresses love will attract, seduce us. It is very warm and cozy for a man.
Like you, we want a woman to take our hand; we want you to come and kiss us randomly; we want you to give us a hug and ask how our day went. It causes feeling of desire.
It just strengthens the bond we have with you, but more importantly, it makes us feel comfortable - inviting, so to speak.
4. Intelligence
Stimulating conversations make men go crazy.
An intelligent woman is one who not only knows a lot about the world around them (man and woman), but also shows a keen interest in making the world, life better.
Life is more than a handbag from the latest collection, designer shoes or the next episode of your favorite reality show. Of course, we are also to blame for this, bombarding you with football on Sundays or even forcing you to watch the Sports Center every night.
But the decisions we face in life can often present us with uncertainty, and someone astute can help us make the right choice. It does not require a graduate degree from Harvard University or any degree for that matter, just intelligence, reasoning and understanding.
5. Confidence
Life is hard. Every day is a struggle to reach your goal, and a confident woman on the side of a man is the key to achieving a dream.
A woman who loves herself, regardless of her own shortcomings, will love a man for who he is. In addition to loving him, she knocks down the doors of resistance and reaches the stars with a man. There is something sexy about a confident woman that has nothing to do with looks.
To be honest, we do not notice your shortcomings. We don't analyze every inch of your body to find perfection. Perfection doesn't exist, so we don't look for it.
Knowing and understanding your worth, you are already attractive. In essence, we are looking for someone who can complement us, and not just be a trophy on our side. It may sound strange, but confidence is something we can feel sexually. It's almost like an energy that attracts us.
6. Ambitions
Men love to be caregivers and "planners" for our families, but we also love a woman who can plan this life with us. We don't want to make all the decisions alone.
Determined women are more committed, simply because they have a laser focus. There is no doubt about their future because they understand what they need in order to get there. Rejection is not an option for them.
Ultimately, a woman who is ready to move forward to be a better mother to her children or have a successful career is the one who will strive for successful relationships.
7. Humility
Humble women exude compassion for others, putting the happiness of others before their own. But they do it in a way that brings them peace and protection. Knowing that someone has this desire to put us first, it is immediately clear that your ego does not interfere with creating a strong relationship.
So, let's sum up.
7 features of the “ideal woman”:
- Personality. Be yourself. Do not be afraid to get dirty or go out without makeup on the street. You are always attractive.
- Respect. Respect yourself and others. Don't chase popularity. There is a misconception that popularity or even social status will help you find true love, but this is not true.
- Attachment. Men, just like women, love physical touches and signs of attention.
- Intelligence. Life is not your favorite TV show or the latest fashion trends. Develop intellectually.
- Confidence. Be sure that you are beautiful. Men do not pay attention to your shortcomings and you should not.
- ambition. Men don't want to decide everything for themselves. Be ambitious and determined.
- Humility. When there is humility, there is confidence that the ego will not get in the way of building a strong relationship.
