Everyone experienced that suicidal moment with people who know exactly how to piss off and irritate every millimeter of nerve endings. In simple terms, they are very annoying and just make you want to kill. It could be the way they chew food or as they say - everything they do is harmful to your health, because even their existence makes you want to kill yourself.
But don't worry about it. We all went through it and survived. So here are the top 10 tips and tricks for dealing with annoying people. Thank you later.
10. Music
You can constantly hear that music is the gateway to the soul. But it is also a gateway to block out a certain annoying soul. Play your favorite music, grab your headphones, ignore the world and annoyance. The problem has been resolved.
But if a person is too clingy and asks to listen to music, in the hope that you will give him one earpiece, then just say “no”, because a type like you does not share music.
9. Be a robot
When the annoying person tries to talk to you, then be the most resistant person you can be. Do not talk or answer as little as possible, perhaps one word to each question. Avoid eye contact at all costs for maximum effect.
When the person is interested, they try to make eye contact. Do everything right and then you can just leave the person alone in confusion.
8. Evasion
The best way to not get irritated is to avoid the source of your nerves and irritations. If you know where the annoying person usually is, or know the places where they are most likely to appear, just don't go there. Be in a familiar place where it won't reach you. Unknown territories can be dangerous too.
7. Run
An annoying person happened to be in the place where you usually hang out, and neither the robot nor the music save you? What to do? The answer is to run. You can be a polite gentleman or lady and come up with an appropriate excuse and leave before the person has time to ruin your mood, or you can simply, without saying anything, run away, as if hungry dogs are chasing you. Either way, it works.
6. Ignore
Perhaps all attempts are futile and you really want to die. Do not. Play dead. Kidding. Just ignore it. If a person chews loudly, then let him. Act like nothing is happening. If he talks too much, go out so as not to hear.
No matter what the person does, pretend they are not there, walk by, ignore as much as possible. Sometimes in life you have to do the right thing.
5. Fake headphones
They can be used when the phone has turned off or there is no music, and the annoying interlocutor continues to speak. Just plug in your headphones, giving the impression that you are listening to music or even talking to someone on the phone (you can really talk to someone or pretend to speak if the situation is tense and need a break). Thus, a person can just stop talking and think about his own.
But be careful. He or she may ask you to listen, then just say no. Because, as said, you are not the kind of person to share music.
4. Intervention
Nothing helps. You are close to hating this person and do not understand why you are still in touch. Do not worry. You can try to talk to the person and say that he is annoying and let him explain why he does it. Just pretend to be dumb and get it all out. This is something like intermediate mediation, intervention.
3. Try to understand
There may be a good reason why this person is behaving so annoyingly. But what if he never had friends or he pushes away everyone who tries to talk to him himself? Try to understand. You may find a solution you haven't seen before to help you relax and reduce irritation to your nervous system.
Or not. Sometimes people can really be very empty.
2. Point it out
If all other methods don't work, and you can't do anything about annoying conversations or habits, then maybe you can do something else about it. As in # 4, talk to the person, but this time, help them deal with the annoying things. It will bring you closer together and help strengthen friendships, possibly for life. You never know for sure.
Be honest and open and point out what you dislike and annoy. If the person is attentive enough, he will fix it. And if he doesn't do anything about it, then there is always advice number 1.
1. Get rid of the irritant
You tried to avoid the person, you tried to ignore, run away, talk to him about it, but nothing worked. He leaves you no choice but to get rid of them.
Get them out of your life, you don't need such a talking irritant in your life. This negative is not needed. Yes, it can be difficult. You may feel rude, but it will save you the hate and annoyance troubles.
Get rid of them and breathe in. Out of sight, out of mind.
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