We all have a true calling. The hardest part is to believe in him. Meeting your calling is like first meeting someone fascinating and mysterious. You continue to encounter him here and there, but you still fail to continue your acquaintance. And then it disappears from sight.
After some time, you notice something, hear, feel, touch or feel something, as if screaming - "this is your calling". You take courage and call. The article below will help you believe in your true calling. Also pay attention to the article: How to Make a Career by Doing What You Love - 5 Steps to Success.
Almost on target
Unfortunately, your calling has lousy call quality. When they call you back, because of this connection, the voice sounds as if it belongs to an obsessed, regularly breathing robot, whose words cannot be made out. Or you can't get through in any way. This phone frustration only destroys the confidence that you have finally found your true calling. Such an experience leaves one wondering - will this idea lead to anything good?
Be that as it may, you cannot get it out of your head, it is annoying and harassing. Doesn't leave you alone. And you cannot leave this idea alone. How to get rid of life stagnation and frustrating calls? The answer is simple - make yours "relationship»Serious.
Make your "relationship" serious
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# 1. Career plans
Any relationship starts the same way - asking if you are the right fit for each other. You can easily figure out for yourself whether something is your calling. Ask yourself a few questions before doing “relationship»Serious. These questions are about those positive experiences and emotions of a calling that you can boast of - captivatingness, charm, liveliness, satisfaction, completeness, helping others, and so on.
What questions will show if you've truly found your true calling? Exactly the same as those that will show you that you have met your soul mate.
- Do people often say that you are perfect for each other?
- Do people think that it is with this profession that you should connect your life?
- Do you feel happy, passionate, and meaningful when you spend time doing this?
- Can you imagine a happy life without your passion?
- Can you imagine a happy life if this passion is definitely present in it?
If you answered yes to all the questions, then you, with your true vocation, are already on the way to crystal clear and trusting "relations". Let's discuss some of the changes you need.
# 2. Changes
You cannot allow various problems to get in the way of developing new relationships, so you will have to change the usual way of thinking. Otherwise, the brain will continue to act and throw up negative thoughts, unless you challenge yourself and change.
The brain prefers to work cyclically, choosing habitual, almost mechanical reactions and ways of solving problems. And this cyclicality is based on what you consider important, and not on what you want, what you need. It depends on what you are focusing on. And this concentration is only strengthened by exactly what you firmly believe in (both good and bad). These beliefs shape your reality, motivate you to act in a certain way, and influence the results you get.
Do you disagree with that? Take a look around. You are made up of the decisions you made. Our life is shaped not by what happened to us, but by how we reacted to it. Our reactions to circumstances are based on our beliefs in life. Change your beliefs - change your life. Start by building confidence in your true calling, which will require a change in the way you think.
And here's how you can change your thinking:
Concentrate on positive thoughts, affirmations, information, experience, preference, hope or belief, and ask yourself the question: “is this really my calling».
WAIT and ACCEPT the evidence your brain provides to make sure you are on the right track.
A true calling will help you adjust your life and change it for the better. Finally, don't overlook the need for insurance. Insurance against tenacious old habits, fears and doubts. If you do not pay attention to them, then they can easily destroy the beginning "relationship"With a vocation.
No. 3. Insurance
My first iPhone fell in a snowdrift and I never saw him again. Fortunately, I had insurance. Your "relationship" with a calling also needs insurance, which is divided into two parts: "Clearly set goals" and "Behavior management».
"Clearly set goals":
A true calling should firmly enter your life - set goals for yourself, first small, then more difficult. Change your goals and aspirations according to the changes in your life.
PURPOSE: you are sure that veterinary medicine is your vocation. Dreaming of an ideal life, you open a veterinary clinic in a rural area.
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- obtaining an appropriate education;
- search for information about successful rural veterinarians.
You will HAVE to enter an educational institution and get an education, coping with all the difficulties arising from this.
If you have other serious commitments in your life (work, children, mortgages, etc.), you will have to reconsider your priorities and fit your calling organically into this list. Over time, this will bear fruit and make it possible to get everything you want from life.
Behavior Management:
Nothing will happen if you do not take active action yourself. 92% of New Year's promises to yourself will never come true because they don't have a clear plan and discipline behind them. And following your calling is no different. You need self-disciplined goals. Let's continue with the example of veterinary medicine:
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- FIND a mentor;
- learn from the experience of a professional.
This will build your confidence in yourself and your choices. And also you will receive useful skills from people who have already found their calling and have become successful rural veterinarians.
Goals and self-discipline will help you continually improve your skills and acquire new knowledge. They will help you shape the behavior you need to become a true professional and fulfill your dreams.
Conclusion
In these "relationship”, As well as in any others, too, not always everything will be smooth. You may have doubts about your choice, but this is absolutely normal, just go back to steps 1 and 2. This will help to make sure again that you have truly found your true calling. Over time, you will become a competent and sought-after professional, which will help pay bills, fill you with happiness, give you the opportunity to help others and give you the life you dream of.
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